In Her Own Words
About Her
I am an author of several books for prisoners, I love prison and women's ministry. I enjoy studying, but to relax I also enjoy movies, eating tasty food, a home girl . I am not a high maintenance girl, I am down to earth and independent, have a great sense of humour and love meeting new people. I am a Pastor-in-training, will be ordained in Nov 2021, have a Masters Degree in Christian Education and a Doctorate in Christian Counselling. I run women's emotional healing groups and write programs for them.
About Her Ideal Match
I would like to meet a Christian man, divorced, down to earth, great sense of humour, faithful type of man - to God first and his woman second. Lets start as friends and see from there. I would like to have a guy that would serve God with me in ministry.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
City Bowl (Wellington), Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
57 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
167cm (5' 5.7") | |
Body Type: |
Full figured | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
54 - 62 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
167cm (5' 5.7") - 188cm (6' 2.0") | ||
Body Type: |
Average; A few extra pounds; Large; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Below Average | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English; Italian; Spanish | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English; Greek; Italian; Spanish | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Straight; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Quiet; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite Colour: |
Yellow |
Date Activities: |
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Gospel / Religious; Jazz; Latin; Opera |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Business; Crime; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Religious; Romance; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; News; Reality shows; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Fishing; Pool; Rugby; Snooker; Swimming; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Fast food; Greek; Italian; Pub Grub; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Volunteering |
Time Online: |
Less than once a week |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence; Long hair |
Turn-offs: |
Flirting; Power; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
More than once a week |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement Plans: |
Doing volunteer work |
Feelings about using Looking4you: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
