In His Own Words
About Him
I’ve known I am a dominant man for a while. However, it’s taken a while to come to terms with exactly what that might mean. I’ve taken some time to think and learn about what it is and how I plan to intertwine it into my life. Now that I have that figured out, I’m looking for an amazing woman who I would be honored to call my submissive.
I have experience in this lifestyle and know what I want. I’m looking for a deep connection with incredible chemistry and trust. I’m mature enough to understand that this takes time to develop. I have the skills and knowledge to train you as a true submissive and teach you how to incorporate that into your life. Please don’t think that means changing who you are – I would never do that to anyone! Think of it as simply adding another dimension to your already beautiful soul and getting to know me in a way no one else can
About His Ideal Match
But, I do know that I have to prove I’m worthy of your submission first before you offer me your greatest gift.
This is not just about dominance or sex. I’m looking for the whole thing. I will be your greatest friend and we will complement each other in a way we never thought possible. A vanilla on the outside relationship with incredible chemistry and deep trust in each other that revolves around a private D/s dynamic and connection that intertwines us in every way.
The friendship, humor, passion, inside jokes, honesty, sexuality, openness, the freedom. I want it ALL – I know you do to!
Is it possible to have all of that? I know it is!! I do know that it will take incredibly hard work between us. We’ll have to learn to live with each others quirks and slowly start to enjoy them. It means being partners and helping each other and supporting them to achieve what they didn’t think was possible. Mention your favorite couple in your reply. The melding of two people together is never easy, but if the right two people find each other then a relationship unobtainable by all others is possible.
I don’t care who you are or what you are or where you live or your social status. I only care that you want this same thing to the very core of your being. I realize that you may not have experience in this lifestyle or know much about submission, don’t worry though as every journey has a starting point. The fact that you’re still reading shows that you very much want this type of connection with someone as well – don’t you owe it to yourself to find out more?
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Kempton Park, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
43 | |
Star Sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
176cm (5' 9.3") | |
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Ask me later | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Struggling |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
18 - 25 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 175cm (5' 8.9") | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Occasional; Regular; Heavy | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Several tattoos |
Sense of Humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The genitals |
Party Behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Intelligent; Pessimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A movie; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Comedy; Horror; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Computer & video games; Meditation; Painting; Pottery; Sculpting; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Chinese; Italian; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I always cook at home |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Exotic pet(s) |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
Castle in Scotland |
Politics: |
Anarchic |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Looking4you: |
Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
