In His Own Words
About Him
I'm quixotic but staid, have opinions that are open to discussion, frank but emphathetic, active but 45 afternoon winks mean I'm on holiday, feel and show my emotions, have an easy laugh and am emotionally honest about ME. Honest but sometimes naive communicator. The special person in my life would enjoy the same priority as do my teenage children.
I really enjoy cycling, friends, wine and food and would love to share some or all of that with a woman on an emotional (rational), physical (we've all lost much sleep over a few decades) and spiritual (nature is my source) level. Imago theory and the 5 love languages are a good place to break the ice. And by the way, my view is that physical intimacy only follows after THE connection.
About His Ideal Match
I will know that after meaningful contact with the person. I hear a person's voice is a wonderful indicator but, no doubt, some people thought Trump had a pleasant enough voice. The smell of cigarettes, bad language, inconsideration, over emphasis on self are not attractive.
What His Friends Say
Dependable hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Sandton (Johannesburg), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star Sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
186cm (6' 1.2") | |
Body Type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Europe; Namibia; South Africa; Canada; United States; Australia | ||
Location: |
Bedfordview; Randburg; Sandton (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
45 - 56 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
161cm (5' 3.4") - 188cm (6' 2.0") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; English; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Italian; Norwegian; Swedish | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Bachelors degree | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Medium; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
None |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Mild; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Forgiveness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite Colour: |
White |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Self-help; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; News; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Reading; Woodworking; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Bodyboarding; Camping; Cycling; Fishing; Hiking; Horse Riding; Mountain biking; Snowboarding; Surfing; Swimming; Table Tennis; Water Polo; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Greek; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Pastimes of choice: |
Exercising |
Time Online: |
Once or twice a week |
Family Size: |
I've got sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using Looking4you: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
