In Her Own Words
About Her
Do you have the hard skills to navigate the ups and downs, and to keep moving forward? I would love a mature partnership, an epic, passionate, legendary love. I have so much to give and share and so do u. We both know how to take the reins, be and create what we want. Fun feeds and cleans our souls giving us fresh perspective. Life is meant to be wondrous, fun, spontaneous & uplifting. I want longevity, exclusivity & continuity without mediocrity or settling.
Curious, engaged, compassionate, sincere, stable, resourceful, loyal, creative, involved and authentic. I'll be a challenge, but you are too much man for a pushover. Wise, but soft, caring, trusting & respecting until I'm proved wrong. I know that others overreactions are a commentary on themselves and not an indictment on me. I'm a modern woman with old fashioned values, and established in my own right. I value my intuition and honor my feelings. You are grateful that I won't be ignored until my emotions explode. You are proud of me as your woman because I know my truth and only want a man worthy of me. Like me, you have studied, striven, triumphed, failed, lost love, won love, and conquered, traveled, grown, and extended oneself. You are also interested in self-development and always strive to better yourself. You are not looking for a mommy to fund your golf habit. Please have solved ALL your past baggage.
We both simply want to love and be loved in return. We'll only get there if we push past the fear of opening ourselves to creating a connection. That's only possible for courageous folks who can conquer the fear of being overwhelmed or being rejected. Our outlook on life defines our actions and becomes our destiny.
About Her Ideal Match
Are you made of the right stuff? I want a man who's moral integrity is paramount. I want to respect you because you don't buckle when I need you. I'll call you out on bad behaviour, but not in public. Are you real, masculine, strong and capable and consistent? Gentle with big open heart? Do you want a partnership built on reciprocation, respect, support, mutual growth and friendship, and not just a date? You have fun and make a woman's heart feel safe because you deserve a feminine woman. You cherish her in all her strengths and weakness.
You don't fear emotions but strive for honesty, sincerity, integrity, etiquette and self-control above material trappings. You are discerning, expect quality and deserve what you want. Your daily choices reflect respect for yourself. You support and encourage mutual growth. You are mature and authentic to resolve misunderstandings. You trust yourself so your woman can feel safe. You pull yourself together to meet obstacles and grow from them. You embrace your wilder, more unconventional side. You trust your decisions and you stand by them. Your pride is masculine, not arrogance from insecurity. You avoid drama or power struggles because you've resolved previous relationships. Your success is from understanding and really liking yourself.
You're humble, gracious, and laugh easily, at me and at yourself. We challenge each other to grow and unanticipated challenges don't see you panic. You are an old-school gentleman, capable of listening, honestly communicating needs and being mindful of mine to co-create boundaries suitable to nurture the space between us. You have the capacity to connect with your mind, body, spirit and soul. You know the difference between being 'in-love' and loving. Above all you really like yourself. You choose to be happy. You are imperfectly perfect, so we complement each other. You are a real man so you're comfortable in leading. If this is you, and if you have the capacity to read this far, I can't wait to meet you.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Sandton (Fourways), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
55 | |
Star Sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
180cm (5' 10.9") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
48 - 65 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
187cm (6' 1.6") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Large; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
English | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Medium; Out of control; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Kindness; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion Sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite Clothing: |
A wicked satin teddy |
Favourite Colour: |
White |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Country & Western; Folk; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Mystery; Romance; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Knitting; Meditation; Reading; Sewing; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Backgammon; Birdwatching; Cycling; Horse Riding; Rugby; Scuba diving; Shooting; Snorkeling; Snowboarding; Swimming; Water Polo; Water skiing; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at Work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
My friends are my main family |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish |
Pets (Like): |
Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Long hair |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using Looking4you: |
Hopeful; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
