In Her Own Words
About Her
Soms sê mense ek is "complicated". Uhm, nee. Net nie oppervlakkig nie. Ek is reguit, eerlik, opreg en glad nie diplomaties nie. Ontaktvol en hou gewoonlik net my gedagtes vir myself. Seerkry het my taaier en slimmer gemaak. Lesse wat mense my geleer het. As jy n verskuilde agenda het, los maar. Daardie stereo-tipe in jou kop is fiksie. Selfs hierdie profiel se samestelling is ontoereikend. Jy sal met my moet gesels om uit te vind wie en wat ek regtig is. Dalk is jy aangenaam verras, dalk nie. Ek klink baie kwaai, nê? Ek is eintlik baie kalm en bedees. Gewoonlik. Kan kwaai raak .. met genoegsame rede. Dit vat baie voordat ek my skroefdraad verloor.
Die lekkerste plek is tuis. Waar ek kan doen wat my plesier verskaf. Soms uitgaan, soms kuier, soms onthaal, maar nie gereeld. Teveel son, wind en koue is onaangenaam, maar op mooi dae is buite, in die natuur, n wonderlike plek om te wees. Die lewe is baie kort. Dit maak skielike draaie en pluk maklik jou wereld onder jou bas uit. Jy dink nog jy is OK, dan is jy nie. Maar as jy loop lê, loop almal oor jou. As jy weg kruip, gaan die lewe by jou verby en eendag skrik jy met n skok wakker en vind uit jy is op n vreemde planeet en jý is die "allien".
Ek is nie fotogenies nie. Fotos doen nie reg aan my gelaatstrekke nie. Ek is nie daardie beeldskone, mode poppie, fyn en vroulik, hare, nael en hoee hak skoentjies waarmee jy by jou buddies gaan spog nie. Ek werk met my hande. My nael is tools, nie jewels. Aanvaar dit. Dit gaan nie verander nie.
About Her Ideal Match
Funksioneel. Van kop tot tone en alles tussen in. Die brein, ore, oe, en als. Die hart is warm en het plek vir my. My maat het balans in als. n MAN wat KAN, het eelte op sy hande, nie sy boude. En dis nie gymn eelte waarvan ek praat nie. Wat my totaal afsit, is n man wat hande in die sakke staan en kyk hoe ander (vrouens, kinders en ou mense) werk, en dan die vermetelheid het om kommentaar te lewer. Jy is mens, nes ek. Jy ken die verskil tussen reg en verkeerd, 'morals' en 'ethics', 'sensual' en 'sexual', geloof en godsdiens. Ek wil weet wat daar binne in jou kop en hart aangaan, meneer. Jy kan speel, maar hard werk ook. Jy het mense-vaardighede, want myne is min. Ek is regtig moeg vir 'wimps', kansvatters en sceemers.
Ek wil skilder, met jou hier naby my. Ek wil n aandete voorberei en rustig eet. Ek wil nooit ooit weer voel ek is in die pad, oorbodig, te min, te veel, n las, of n onaangename verpligting nie. Dan bly ek eerder sonder n maat.
Ek weet nie regtig wat verhoudings maak werk nie. Ek weet wel wat hul breek. As ons nie die dinge op daardie baie lang lys doen nie, dink ek ons sal OK wees.
Over inflated egos and over-sized pride: Being male does't make you The MAN. That is a title you have to earn.
Kompetisie hoort nie in my huis. As jy MAN's genoeg is, wys my jy het murg, guts, n rugstring en n werkende brein. Is dit n vrou se plig om die man te beskerm? Is dit n vrou se plig om vir n man te baklei? Moet n vrou nou jagter speel en die manne "vang"? Waar is jou "balls", ou? As jy nie selfrespek het nie, gaan jy ook nie respek vir my hê nie. As jy nie konsiderasie het vir ander nie, sal jy ook nie konsiderasie vir my hê nie. In so geval, hou maar verby, meneer.
As cannabis of n ander dwelm jou sak, tyd en brein vreet. Los maar. Jy mors jou tyd hier. Ek sal tabak en n geleentheids drankie aanvaar. Ek sal baie dinge aanvaar. Maar daar is dinge waarop ek nie meer bereid is om kompromiee op te maak nie. Cannabis en ander dwelms is een van daardie punte.
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria (Roseville), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
51 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
161cm (5' 3.4") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Other | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Ask me later | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Artistic / Musical / Writer | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
49 - 59 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
166cm (5' 5.4") - 200cm (6' 6.7") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Regular; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have a chronic illness; I have a hearing impairment; Other |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Goofy |
Intelligence: |
Intellectually Challenged |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Intelligent; Mild; Moody; Naive; Optimistic; Outspoken; Pessimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Shy; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
White |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Instrumental |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Business; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Sci-Fi; Talk shows; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; Westerns |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Reading; Sculpting; Sewing; Surfing the Internet; Woodworking; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Chess; Fishing; Walking |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Seafood; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Erotica; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Power; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
House in the suburbs |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Looking4you: |
Nervous; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
