Why Looking4you is perfect for you…
- Find love, make friends and search for like-minded people today!
- Find your ideal match with our intelligent two-way matching system.
- Your personal details are kept safe and completely private.
- It’s QUICK, EASY & FREE to join!
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Looking4you provides a secure, hassle-free environment where people can meet to form new online relationships. Whether you’re looking for new friends, a quick soiree in the world of online dating, or the love of your life, you’re sure to find someone special amongst our thousands of personal ads. Using Looking4you is quick, easy, safe and completely anonymous.
Featured Profiles
Hotelhippy
Want to know about me then ask me :) loving life and swimming in the fast lane :) you know you want to :) [removed]
rogofor
I’m decent! I respect others, but I’ll tease them unmercifully. I’m caring, a soft touch, love wildlife, birds, animals, photography, travel, seeing new places. I’m careful…
Nupieds
Looking to do what I can with what I have , where I am at …feels great to be where i am , so if you looking for similar lets give it a try and live a life that matters..
Linkin08
This is a very scary thing, meeting strangers online, but I guess without the risk there will be no reward, so here goes. I’m originally a small-town girl that came to Joburg…
How It Works
- STEP 1: Join today - it’s quick, easy and completely FREE to join!
- STEP 2: Complete your profile - tell us about yourself and what you’re looking for in a partner.
- STEP 3: Upload a photo - whilst photos are optional, it will dramatically increase the number of responses you receive.
- STEP 4: Try our popular (and very clever) two-way matching system and see who you match with or try any of our many search options to see which one work best for you.
- STEP 5: Log in regularly, be proactive and make the first move by contacting the members you like.
Most importantly, have fun and enjoy the journey in finding your perfect match and hopefully make life-long friends along the way.
For more information, visit our Frequently Asked Questions or articles page.
Success Stories
Thank-you! Perseverance pays off. I tried this site on and off over a two year period after my divorce 5 years ago. Although I met one or two fantastic blokes, who to this day remain friends, the elusive ONE seemed to remain just out of my grasp. I didn’t use this site for more than two years, but in February this year, I decided to give it one last shot… And within just two days, met the man I’ve been waiting for. I hid my profile after four days of joining, and can close it permanently today. I find myself happy beyond words. Thank-you for making this possible.
Lana, 2012-03-28
I have been meaning to write this message for a long time. I went on this site 2 years ago exactly. I was completely dubious and sceptical that anything may come of it. I was bored with meeting drunken guys in pubs/night clubs and nothing ever coming of it…We met 2 years ago, and we’re engaged to be married next year… we are a great couple but if it wasn’t for internet dating I really don’t think our paths would ever have crossed. To all those thinking of doing it and worried about how it may work out I would advise you to go for it. It felt gutsy at the time as its hard to put your heart on the line and out-rightly declare that you’re ready to meet someone special and settle down but it worked out for me and brought me such happiness and hopefully it will for you.:)
Dee, 2011-09-19
Despite my initial sceptism about online dating, I’ve been blessed & found a wonderful man on your site & am looking forward to a wonderful & memorable journey together. Thank you !!!!!
Motheo, 2012-03-22
Good day I had met a number of people on the site over a period of about two years. Although not entirely suitable for me, most were good people, also just looking for their match. Finally, I met a wonderful man, in early in March 2011… Before meeting, we lived and worked on opposite sides of Gauteng and it is highly unlikely, if not impossible, that we would ever have met each other had it not been for your website… Thank you, from both of us, for giving us the opportunity to find each other!
Robyn, 2012-01-25
Did You Know?
We want to hear from you… What do you think of the new site design and functionality? Are you having problems with any parts of the site? Do you have suggestions for new functionality, or more questions you’d like to see in the profiles? Do you have a Looking4you success story to share? Whatever’s on your mind, if it relates to Looking4you, we’d love you to tell us about it.
You can block messages from another member who may be bugging you, by simply clicking the ‘block him or her’ link in their profile?
That you can find people in our database in a number of different ways? Visit the ‘Find People’ section to read the details and choose the method best suited to your needs.
Profiles with photos get up to 10 times as much attention as those without photos? Go to ‘My Profile’ and select the ‘Photos’ link to upload yours today.






